The three most recent hotspots for fear and loathing in Manhattan are NEW YORK Magazine, all of Conde Nast's empire, and jobs at BLOOMBERG BUSINESS WEEK. The fear is for getting the ax. The loathing is for self, in choosing to work in the vineyard of truth, justice, and the elite way, usually when one could have earned a lot more hustling on Wall Street or, at least during the boom, pulling serial all-nighters at law firms.
The infrastructure of even Manhattan can't absorb all this uncertainty, redundant talent, and self-hate. Is there a solution, as we Friends of Bill rhetorically ask? Yes. Here are parts of it:
- Leverage your solid communications skills to more marketable areas such as marketing communications, sales, and digital start-ups.
- Re-locate to a more affordable area. Here in New Haven, Connecticut, where public transportation is right up there with that of Manhattan, my rent is $625 monthly. The Brookings Institution ranked New Haven among the 20 cities that are thriving in the downturn. A number of others are in Texas.
- Everything, and I mean everything, depends on where you put your attention. You can focus on the past and present or making future opportunities happen. A useful read on that is "Rapt: Attention and the Focused Life" by Winifred Gallagher. When I shifted my mindset from how much I had lost to what my new labors could reap I began to succeed - effortlessly. Here is my former sad story, which now has a very happy ending Download Geezerguts.
- Change your networks, professional and personal. Those on them know the former you. You require a new you. Those contacts will hold that process back. I know. It took time and strength but I got rid of all the folks pre-2003 in my life when I was exiled from Professional Eden. I wouldn't have reached a new Professional Promised Land had I kept them in my life.
Manhattan will come back. It always has. But perhaps not as the media capital of the world. The world is digital and influence and power can be created any where.