Tonight on "Criminal Mind," agent Penelope Garcia had her hair streaked with, among other colors, strawberry. She also has a new beau. Garcia, who carries extra poundage and had her share of bumps in the road when young, is the non-Oprah. She lives as she is and in the now and allows others to be who they are too. There is none of that seeming Oprah self-absorption with weight, yesterday, and her own views.